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A Comprehensive Lifestyle Makeover

Lifestyle Makeover

The objective of the Lifestyle Makeover is to provide you with the guidance and framework to PURGE ALL your unearned, undeserved, and inappropriate feelings of Guilt and Shame, FOREVER!

These ONLY serve to inhibit you and hobble your progress, delaying your destiny, and keeping you from becoming the person you SHOULD and CAN be... Confident of your OWN Power, affirmed by your own decisions, and TRULY accepting of -- and comfortable with -- yourself!

We focus initially on helping you to overcome the LIFETIME of religiously & culturally reinforced negative, nonsensical and emotionally abusive social programming that you have unwittingly accepted...

The Worthy Playboy Manifesto

A Lifestyle of Successfulness®

What Defines a Worthy Playboy?

‘Worthy Playboy’ is a master at The Game of Life – a Game in which the true rules are unspecified, and in which the PURPOSE is to figure out which rules apply TO YOU while attaining and maintaining primal, self-perpetuating Happiness.

“Playboy” denotes a man devoted to the pursuit of pleasure;

A traditional ‘worthless playboy’ is a tragic character, bereft of personality-traits and characteristics which would justify the company he keeps; he must therefore lavish his retinue with copious extravagance, substituting money-for-character, and replacing the necessity of being interesting with merely being impressive… and impressive plays-out very quickly!

“Worthy” connotes merit; honor; nobility, eminence; righteousness; deserving, and high-value;

To both be a playboy while exemplifying those characteristics of worthiness might sound like a daunting challenge, beyond the reach of mortal men; but it is not beyond YOUR REACH:

All it requires is an absolute dedication to achieving ongoing personal-satisfaction – through comprehensively understanding and appreciating YOURSELF, and ensuring your words, your actions, and your motives are all congruent with the person you wish to be; YOUR BEST SELF!

When you are able to objectively view yourself, and honestly say “I’d be delighted to have ME as a friend” you’re almost there!

When you develop a healthy sense of “Self-Esteem” [the way you regard yourself, and what you EXPECT you should be able to accomplish] and your “Self-Confidence” [what you have PROVED to yourself you can confidently accomplish] are appropriately lofty, and matched to each-other, you’ve attained ‘Self-Satisfaction’.

Add to that the sense of primal Happiness, and you’ve become “Successful!”

That ‘successfulness’ is something which broadcasts itself loudly and clearly, without the need ever to speak a word… It is the pure essence of self-love and self-appreciation which makes the possessor IRRESISTIBLY, COMPELLINGLY ATTRACTIVE to others…

..because just being around someone who is THAT comfortable feels so good, IT IS ADDICTIVE!

A Primer for Successfulness®

We will not 'deprogram you'

 -- but rather, by stepping you through a comprehensive series of irrefutable arguments, supported by undeniable facts, and leading to inescapable conclusions -- YOU WILL *PERSONALLY* PROVE TO YOURSELF that you have been suffering FOR NOTHING -- and with that, you will feel like a new person - *GUARANTEED!*

Most people don't even realize that they are suffering! They ENDURE countless insignificant or even miserable days, without progressing. Without becoming more mature, more satisfied, or more comfortable as they age... they simply become more numb to their pain, and more oblivious to (or accepting of!) their life's slipping away from them - like water down the drain!

The Worthy Playboy Institute doesn't permit that kind of self-abandonment!

Our students are TORN from their comforting-misery, and have plainly demonstrated in excruciating detail HOW AND WHY their suffering is ENTIRELY SELF-INFLICTED, and can be ended forever, as easily as turning off the tap!

YOU needn't suffer any longer. We will help you develop legitimate, justified self-respect; to establish appropriate self-esteem, and purge erroneous and worthless artifacts left in place from your childhood, your 'job', your formal education, from Television, and from Society-at-Large. We will help you establish, FOR YOURSELF, who you really are, and what really matters to you - and for you.

We are NOT merely offering 'empowerment' --

-- literally, an end to needless suffering, once and for all!

Make no mistake! I'm not criticizing either the teaching of, or someone's learning 'Pick Up' techniques...

It's fine for modern men to discover that it's NOT an affront to approach someone, and to begin a friendly interaction - in that way, learning 'Pick Up' is very helpful.

But once you become comfortable and confident in breaking the ice, expressing anything other than your true self is self-sabotage, as well as unethical and creepy.

Once you are able to break through initial resistance, it is time to become disarming - to have the people you find interesting share themselves with you, willingly.

Transcending 'Pick Up', by becoming comfortable getting to genuinely KNOW someone, and letting them get to know the real you, is pivotal to establishing a worthwhile relationship. 

"Successfulness" is the most attractive and compelling quality a person may possess. It is ENTIRELY INTERNALLY GENERATED, and requires absolutely NO affirmation nor validation by anyone else, period.

It is ONLY generated through matching your appropriate self-esteem to your self-confidence (thereby achieving 'Self-Satisfaction') and conjoining that with genuine, self-sustaining Happiness.

Keys to Successfulness®

  1. 1
    Recognizing that Happiness, like Misery, is a state-of-mind - and as such, IS ALWAYS A CHOICE!
  2. 2
    Learning to manage expectations of YOURSELF, and of OTHERS, and of Yourself in the minds of others. (Enduring persistant disappointment is irrational, self-defeating, and entirely unnecessary.)
  3. 3
    Identifying that SELF-DECEPTION is the true ROOT of ALL EVIL, and therefore Guarding against it above all else!
  4. 4
    Appreciating and accepting yourself, and others - PARTICULARLY those of your gender-preference - And ensuring that you are neither tainting nor inflating your assessments due to INFATUATION, OBSESSION, or ROMANCE! [see item 3 above.]
  5. 5
    Discovering who you truly ARE, and from that, determining what you'll do - and NEVER DOING ANYTHING that you wouldn't do. (ie., never compromising your integrity & ethical boundaries, even momentarily!)
  6. 6
    Employing 'Reasoned Confidence'. Developing a consistent and reliable model for your own rationale - Aligning your intellectual evaluations with your emotional ones, and ensuring you come to quorum not JUST between those, but also with your conscience, BEFORE MAKING YOUR DECISIONS.
  7. 7
    Internalizing that "AUTHORITY" & "RESPONSIBILITY" are actually the SAME CONCEPT - and that they must NEVER be allowed to be separated. They must ALWAYS be reciprocally congruent. This means, NEVER accepting responsibility for ANYTHING you cannot ultimately control - such as the emotions or decisions of other people!

  8. 8
    Offering 'Hobson's Choice' to others. Exposing them to YOUR REAL SELF, accepting that THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE whether to begin or maintain a relationship with you, or not. (Pretending you are anything other than you genuinely are is UNFAIR to both of you!)
  9. 9
    Liberating yourself from the oppression of societies' counter-human rules & codes of conduct - and realizing that most EVERYONE is attempting to follow an artificially constructed lifestyle which is both IMPOSSIBLE and irrational, and provides NO OPPORTUNITY FOR SUCCESSFULNESS! Keeping yourself from doing anything in which you have reasoned confidence simply because you seek the approval (or fear the disapproval) of anyone you don't genuinely ADMIRE is madness!
  10. 10
    Reclaiming the ORIGINAL meaning of "Success": A success is merely AN OUTCOME; the result of an ATTEMPT. One in a succession of successes, each successively attempted, which one hopes ideally will lead to a positive success, or even an optimal success.

    Therefore, as the OPPOSITE of "Success" is FAILURE (ie, NOT MAKING AN ATTEMPT!)

    One only FAILS when they cannot, or will not, make any attempt.

    [We have, over generations, corrupted the word "success" to necessitate a positive result, thereby making "failure" the only alternative, and demotivating people even to TRY!]
  11. 12
    Mastering your Ego - the voice in your head which intercepts everything you see, hear, and consider, and tells you WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO DO, discounting everything new or challenging as "foolhardy and pointless, and sure to cause pain & humiliation".

    It will remain IMPOSSIBLE to progress until you become comfortable ignoring or subjugating your Ego, because it fears EMBARRASSMENT more than misery & stagnation, and would sooner you suffer than IT - since learning ANYTHING NEW initially requires risking failure to accomplish it.
  12. 14
    Understanding 'Belonging': No one can assign belonging to another - Belonging (literally to LONG for something) is something each individual determines about themselves. Your partner ONLY 'belongs' to you if he/she LONGS to be with you when they aren't - and this has NOTHING TO DO WITH 'PROPERTY', 'OWNERSHIP', nor 'POSSESSION'.
  13. 15
    Realizing that JEALOUSY IS AN OPPOSITE OF LOVE. Jealousy is JUST the sensation of your Ego shouting at you, that IF you gave your beloved the CHOICE, they wouldn't choose you. (WHY WOULD YOU WANT to be with someone who WOULDN'T CHOOSE YOU?)

    Appreciating that HUMANS CAN NOT BE PROPERTY. "Your partner" is ONLY "yours" so long as they choose to be, AND you choose for them to be... and this may end at any time.

    There is NOTHING you can do to FORCE someone to love or belong to you. [See 7 above.]

  14. 16
    Recognizing that HATE is NOT an opposite of Love - rather, it is a special, highly-impassioned FORM of Love, normally saved for people who SUCK!

    So long as you remain emotionally invested in the happiness and well-being of another person, you Love them.

    Do not waste your Love on such people.

Most everyone alive, and virtually everyone in the Seduction Community, has been raised grossly misunderstanding their OWN motivations, and still worse, the motivations of the opposite sex.


That we're all fundamentally after the same things, and that by using our model of direct communication, not only with the 'defenses' be dropped, but YOU WILL BE WELCOMED WITH OPEN ARMS, and accepted and appreciated holistically.

'The Game' is not about 'Picking up girls' -- it's THE GAME OF LIFE, and we will not only teach you how to WIN IT, but also to enjoy the results of playing it well for the rest of your days.

The Game of Life, ONCE YOU REALIZE IT, can be uniformly satisfying, joyous and pleasant, rich and rewarding, and above all, SATISFYING. But like a video-game, sometimes it helps to know the cheat-codes And that's what we are here to teach!
How to FREE YOURSELF from the constraints of peer-pressure (No mere childhood issue, it is much more profound than anyone would imagine!)

  • How to liberate yourself from the ANXIETY OF NOT KNOWING, thereby empowering you to learn new things, without compunction, shame, or fear.
  • How to emancipate yourself from the belief that STRANGERS' OPINIONS MATTER!
  • How to 'reframe' conversations, to ensure YOUR message is getting through! Ultimately, the ability calmly, happily, and confidently to speak your mind and build communications-frames which suit all parties will become central to your interactions with others, an we'll teach you how and why it works, and get you underway!

[Johnny is] dead honest with women...

As for Johnny Soporno, someone mentioned that I take a lot of notes when he talked. You're damn right I did... [Johnny] is a straight shooter and intelligent. very personable, and most importantly to me... dead honest with women. 

Zan Perrion //  Enlightened Seduction

Lifestyle Makeover -An Intensive Course

The Lifestyle Makeover is NOT certain to bring you the sublime mastery of confidence your instructors will demonstrate - but it *IS GUARANTEED* to give you a RADICAL improvement in your self-respect, self-confidence, and appreciation of life, overall!

Certain deeply ingrained issues, hysterical phobias, and debilitating fears might require extremely powerful, yet non-invasive hypnotherapy, which is available through the institute at your request.

During the days of intensive group-study, generally 'Socratic' round-table discussions, but also in-field, practical outtings to nearby malls, popular restaurants, or other populated areas, to help participants to learn to flirt comfortably, and communicate intentions effortlessly.

Our first evening, presuming everyone has done their homework*, will be a group discussion around the Seductive Reasoning paradigms, as well as tackling the challenges of inter-gender communication.

*Homework consists of actively taking notes while watching the nearly six hour of our 'Intro to "Seductive Reasoning" 101 & 102' video seminars, (available for free download from

Here's a Sample Of What You're Going To Learn at the Event

Our goal is to explain certain key elements in a semi-firm order, with PLENTY of break-out time. During break-outs, the mentors will help students work through any issues which cause them difficulty, or require further elaboration and explanation.

The Q&A will be basically constant - and you and your fellow students, over the course of the workshop, will become more and more able to answer one-another's questions. This isn't a 'Juice You Up' thing... Once you UNDERSTAND what you'll be introduced to, you WON'T BE ABLE to 'Take the Blue Pill' anymore. Once you see the world clearly for what it TRULY is, and other people for their roles within The Game, you will NEVER be able to pull the wool over your own eyes again.

Sound scary? It's WORTH IT!

The changes in your BRAIN will be felt overnight, if not immediately! - These mindset changes will be followed between a couple-of-days and several weeks later by the acceptance of your new paradigm into your emotional-center. (Your feelings aren't logical, like your conscious mind, but they DO REASON, and resolving these new insights, and coming to comfort with the fantastic-yet-true replacements, overcoming the momentum of a lifetime of faulty programming... can take a little time!

If you're sick of feeling that you've disappointed yourself, tired of accepting the frustrations of your mundane life, and you are seeking a non-religious answer to WHY THINGS JUST DON'T MAKE SENSE all around you -- Come to us. If you want a life-enhancing and spiritually/psychologically permanent improvement in the way you live, in every aspect of your world, come to us.

The Best Time to Sign Up is Now!

The Seminar is Scheduled for March 8-15, 2020

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